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I was so refreshed and encouraged by the comments you left on the last post about my struggle to understand God’s violence. Not only did it become abundantly clear that I’m not the only one wrestling with this question, but also that there are many resources and perspectives to help us along. I look forward to continuing to wrestle aloud and pursue this question with you. It’s helpful to know we’re not alone in it, isn’t it?
Earlier this week, I encountered a meaningful reminder about my journey into nonviolence that I think can contribute to our ongoing consideration of this question. It began with my reading a passage in Martin Luther King’s Strength to Love that talks about our need for both a God of justice and a God of mercy. Specifically, he wrote:
At times we need to know that the Lord is a God of justice. When slumbering giants of injustice emerge in the earth, we need to know there is a God of power who can cut them down like the grass and leave them withering like the Greek herb. When our most tireless efforts fail to stop the surging sweep of oppression, we need to know that in this universe is a God whose matchless strength is a fit contrast to the sordid weakness of man.
But there are also times when we need to know that God possesses love and mercy. When we are staggered by the chilly winds of adversity and battered by the raging storms of disappointment and when through our folly and sin we stray into some destructive far country and are frustrated because of a strange feeling of homesickness, we need to know that there is Someone who loves us, cares for us, understands us, and will give us another chance.
— Strength to Love, page 9
I’ll admit that at the time I read this passage, it didn’t hit me at my core. However, I could identify with what he said. I thought of the little girls sold into brothels and the families owned by slavemasters around the world and IJM’s staunch fight to overcome these realities of injustice. I know the God of justice cares for these oppressed and forgotten ones. I know that he is coming for them and does not tolerate the evil done against them. I know it breaks his heart and angers him.
But I haven’t personally been very in touch with this God of justice of late because God has been taking me deeper into his merciful heart — his heart that grieves for the sins of humanity and wants to rescue us from ourselves. This is the part of God’s heart in me that weeps for my enemies and the perpetrators of evil on this earth. There is a connection to the heart of God in this, too.
But then the following morning, I read a psalm that reminded me more concretely of my journey into the heart of God’s justice that happened several years ago. The psalm reads:
We’ve been hearing about this, God, all our lives.
Our fathers told us the stories their fathers told them,
How single-handedly you weeded out the godless
from the fields and planted us,
How you sent those people packing
but gave us a fresh start.
We didn’t fight for this land;
we didn’t work for it — it was a gift!
You gave it, smiling as you gave it,
delighting as you gave it.
You’re my king, O God —
command victories for Jacob!
With your help we’ll wipe out our enemies,
in your name we’ll stomp them to dust.
I don’t trust in weapons;
my sword won’t save me —
But it’s you, you have saved us from the enemy;
you made those who hate us lose face.
— Psalm 44:1-8
In a vivid way when I read this psalm, I was reminded of key moments in my life where I was beaten up and scarred and wounded, times when I was called out and humiliated, times when I was taken by force and used as a plaything or object of another’s selfish gain, times when my innocence was taken, when another person didn’t respect my boundaries or love me with a selfless love, times when I was accused and left alone by those who ought to have loved me, times when I was given too much weight for my too-small shoulders to bear.
I recalled these moments in graphic detail and remembered my need for God’s just heart when I originally faced the real truth of these hurts and needed to heal from them. I needed the justice of God to heal. I needed to encounter a God who saw those things happen and thought it mattered. I needed to be seen in those moments of pain, and God saw me. He cared for me in a way that I needed care. He acknowledged the wrongdoing and fought for my heart. He ministered to me tenderly and dressed my wounds.
God’s heart of justice was the essence of my healing at that time. His justice brought me close to his side. It grew my love for him. It secured me in his love, and my conception of God today is bound up in his having done this for me.
But as I grew in this love from God and became rooted and established in it, a shift happened. I stopped needing God’s wrath. I no longer needed his vengeful justice against those who had brought me harm. His love for me overcame my original pain and my need for God’s justice on my behalf.
Instead, I began to love those who had hurt me and desired their good and their salvation. I began to see their woundedness and felt nothing but compassion and mercy. I forgave them. I prayed for them. I sought reconciliation with some of them. I desired their good.
In this, I became united to God’s heart of love. I entered God’s love for the world. It is a love that weeps for the brokenness of humanity and seeks its salvation. It is a love that comes after those who reject God. It is a love that is stronger than hate.
The love of God that was rooted in his justice healed my wounds and helped me forgive and love the world. This is where my nonviolence journey began.